Last night Israel and I watched 2 videos that I had checked out from my hospital. One was the birth process, and the other was on Lamaze. 
It was…interesting. I think what we saw was very helpful and it helped us understand what was going to happen, and different techniques that may help block some of the pain. There were some parts of the video that looked really cooky…like when all of the couples were doing a relaxation technique and they were all sprawled out in the living room. It almost reminded me of hypnosis. Overall, I think it was good though. I think we may have to watch it again just to remember the exercises. I think at times Israel was having trouble staying focused. Here I was, trying to learn the different techniques, and then Israel would make some comment like, “Look at that girl’s neck! She looks like a giraffe!” or, “I think Bentley is doing some relaxation techniques too, because he just farted! HAHAHA!” So yeah, we’ll probably have to watch it few more times so we can remember all of the information that they gave us.
I can’t believe the baby is due so soon!! I’m almost in the 35th week which means that in a little over a week, if the baby is born, it wouldn’t be considered a premie. In a little over 3 weeks, the baby will be full-term…and could be born at any time from that point! We along with our friends have been praying that the baby waits for Israel to come back from Australia. We’ll see what happens. I am glad, though, that my in-laws are coming to help us! Juan, Evelyn, and our nephew Jacob will be coming soon to spend time with us and help us prepare everything before the baby comes. That will be exciting.
Well, I need to get going because my students are starting to come in for Math…until next time…
Want pictures of Judy and Bowling Ball! Must satisfy preggo-curiosity! Descriptions of lamaze videos simply not enough! Must book flight to D-troit to witness Miracle of Life!Glad in-laws are coming for baby prep. Praying for the Ramos Fandamily!!!
I’m praying too that Israel will be able to make it to see Ti-nee-bay-bee’s first entrance into the Great Big World. An ushering in of another breath of life and a soul born of grace made possible by God Himself. It’s amazing for me to think that another soul is able to experience the joys of Heaven because Christ waits… And I pray that Israel will remember more than giraffes when the time comes for him to utilize what he learned…busybusy
Dude, Kendra, my stomach is so huge. I feel as though I’m turning into a blimp. Anyhow, I’ll work on getting pictures up soon! Must take advantage of Premium!!
Wow, that’s close. I think I was born 2-3 weeks early, if that gives you any comfort. But then my brother was born 3 days late. Babies run their own schedules. I’ll be praying that the baby waits for its daddy to get back before coming on out. But I’m glad your inlaws are coming to help out! I’m sure it will be a huge blessing.
it’s so funny i was going to email you guys, but you posted…..so now my advice won’t seem unsolicited from one new mom to another….during labor i didn’t remember anything i read, watched, or practiced. these are the things that people told me that actually helped me…..when it’s all said and done only you know what works…..
1. labor at home as long as possible…….(i started having contractions at 12am i went to the hospital at 11:30am had noah by 3pm…)
2. walk, walk, walk, walk, did i mention walking……(think gravity)
3. breathe through the contraction (you’ll probably want to hold your breath…..but remember the baby needs air plus it hurts less.)
4. this worked for me —– a warm shower….i think i was the cleanest laboring woman at the hospital ’cause i took about 6 showers
5. israel you do WHATEVER judy wants….rub her lower back through the contractions with olive oil or massage oil…that feels really good..then again she might not want you to touch her….if she wants you to sing, jump like a frog, or shut the mouth…then that’s what you do… i’m not worried because i know that you are someone who is very intuned with the feelings of the ones you love and will do whatever it takes to make them happy so i can only imagine what you are willing to do for your wife….
6. keep your eyes on the prize…..afterall, a cute, cuddly baby comes out of all of this and THAT’S AMAZING!!!!!!
7. judy take all the help you can get, before and after….. at first you’ll want to do everything for your lil’ one, but it will catch up to you months after everyone has left….
8. PRAY, PRAY, PRAY, PRAY……….. i think that’s something we tend to forget because we are not thinking about anything but the pain
sorry so long…don’t mean to sound like a know it all
Thank you so much, Kerian! I appreciate any counsel I can get. I am definitely one who likes to do things by myself so I am going to have to work on accepting help from others more. I think I’m getting to a point now where I just want the baby to be here. I wouldn’t mind skipping the labor/delivery part…AND I don’t think I’ll miss being pregnant.
I always enjoy reading your posts, Judy! Keep ’em coming. :O) Can’t wait to see pictures of little Ramos soon….
Keep breathing! Hee hee hoo. Hee hee hoo. Hee hee hoo.
BTW, how come you haven’t subscribed to my xanga? Are you boycotting me??? (Just kidding…kind of) ;O)
Miss you and hope to see you again soon! I hope Israel can make it back in time for the action. I bet it’ll be a lot of fun spending time with bro and sis-in-law. Enjoy all of it! Thinking of you.
“He he hoo” — is that right, Andrea? Are you secretly watching Lamaze videos instead of studying for law school?
har har…. and yes, the reason I haven’t.. ahem deposited the ahem… is because, well, I just don’t have the time. Yeah. And I have a professor who is literally lighting a fire under my chair. Just a little stressful. Just a little. But it helps to pray for him. Yes, yes it does. Yes, yes it does. Man. I almost miss Bentley’s farts. Almost. Almost. OK, maybe not. But Mr B himself, yes. Oh yeah, and you guys too, you guys too. Did I tell you I had a dream that I was being attacked by cats? Not all at once, but multiple scenarios where one cat was attacking me. Make sure you’re feeding Chance and Arroe well… so they won’t want to eat my fingers…
Lamaze videos? Me??? Who posted that comment? I bet it was Israel the provocateur. I can hear you saying it!
Hey you two,
I’d be really interested to get feedback from both of you about the ethical question that I posted on my xanga….
I am praying that everything will go very well for you and I can’t wait to see pictures of your new baby!!!
Judy, I had to go to the Neonatal ICU today (for work)and on my way there, I walked past a woman who was in labor.She was wearing a hospital gownand had IV tubing trailing behind her.Her husband was following with the bag attached to a pole.(I won’t tell you anymore, so as not to scare you.)I thought of you when I saw her. 🙂
This is all very exciting! JUDY: I will keep you in my prayers so that little mini Israel arrives into this world safely with strength and good health. WE MISSSED YOU this weekend! We NEED you around to keep Israel’s stories straight (ya know) ISRAEL: Seriously, the day after you left… Jeannie and I were like: I miss him. hahaha… nice story telling… I am so glad you didn’t fall asleep while hanging out with us. OH and I just remembered… I DID say that about my family last time in Cali. hahaha. I must admit– I have a terrible memory.
Liz,I’m glad you realize it now. It blows my mind, you know you have a “terrible memory” and you still don’t trust mine…hmmm
Okay, guys….I’ve been checking this thing all weekhoping that one of you would post something.(I’m too impatient to wait for the email.)Tell us about your pregnant lives, will ya?(I know someone’s gonna say something abouthow Israel isn’t pregnant, just Judy. I know, I know.But Israel and Judy are now one flesh,so they’re both pregnant.) 🙂
hey judy, i need your address…
i know this is stupid, but the fastest way of getting to you b/c when i send you emails, it gets sent back to me.
i’m very sorry for your loss and may your grandmother rest in peace. she was such a sweet lady and she’ll be missed. our family’s condolences goes to you. love, sandra